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The Stress of Success: Therapy for High-Functioning Anxiety in NYC
As an experienced stress and anxiety therapist with nearly 20 years of experience, I’ve worked with countless high-achieving professionals who are respected, successful, and outwardly composed—but who feel overwhelmed, anxious, and exhausted on the inside. If that sounds familiar, you are not alone.
At Holistic Psychotherapy, EMDR, and Wellness NY, I offer virtual therapy designed specifically for professionals who appear to be thriving but are silently struggling. Whether your anxiety shows up as perfectionism, burnout, or a constant fear of not being good enough, there is support available that actually works—and fits into your life.
This blog post explores how anxiety uniquely affects high-functioning individuals, how therapy can help, and what to expect if you are ready to start your healing journey.
The Hidden Face of Anxiety in High Achievers
Anxiety is not always loud or dramatic. For high performers, it often hides in plain sight—masked by ambition, accomplishment, and self-discipline.
You might be:
Meeting deadlines but mentally drained
Leading teams while secretly doubting yourself
Maintaining a polished image but feeling like an imposter
Working late not because you have to, but because you can’t relax
These patterns often go unrecognized because they are rewarded in professional environments. But just because they are common doesn’t mean they are healthy—or sustainable.
The Cost of Untreated Anxiety
When anxiety is left unchecked, it can impact every aspect of your life, including:

