Many New Yorkers carry more than they realize — old wounds, unresolved stress, or difficult memories that continue to shape daily life. For many, therapy has been part of their journey — but sometimes, talking alone doesn’t feel like enough. Old patterns resurface, memories remain raw, and the relief they hoped for feels out of reach. EMDR therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) offers a different path. It’s designed not just to manage symptoms, but to resolve them at the root. And with secure telehealth platforms like SimplePractice, you can now experience the full benefits of EMDR therapy virtually — no matter where you are in New York State.

What Is Virtual EMDR Therapy?

Virtual EMDR is for those moments when you’re ready to drop the armor, stop circling the same conversations, and finally get serious about healing. Virtual EMDR therapy uses the same evidence-based principles as in-person sessions, but is delivered online through video conferencing. Bilateral stimulation—whether through eye movements, sounds, or tactile cues—can be easily facilitated through specialized tools and techniques designed for remote sessions. Clients often find that doing EMDR in their own space adds an extra layer of safety and comfort, allowing them to open up more fully.

Why New Yorkers Are Turning to Virtual EMDR

Life in New York doesn’t slow down, and finding the time to prioritize your mental health can feel impossible. Virtual EMDR therapy eliminates many barriers:

• Convenience: No commuting, no subway delays—just log in from home or a private office.

• Privacy: Sessions take place in a secure, confidential online environment.

• Accessibility: Whether you’re in Manhattan, Brooklyn, Queens, the Bronx, Staten Island, or upstate New York, EMDR is available with just a click.

• Continuity of Care: Frequent travel or unpredictable schedules don’t have to interrupt your progress.

If you’ve found that traditional talk therapy hasn’t brought you the level of transformation you’re seeking, you’re not alone. Many people reach a point in their healing journey where they crave a more embodied, integrative approach—one that addresses not only thoughts and behaviors, but also the nervous system, trauma responses, and internal patterns of self-protection.

Somatic Parts Work is a powerful therapeutic method that combines the principles of Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy with somatic trauma healing. This integrative approach supports deeper emotional healing by working directly with the mind-body system and the inner “parts” or subpersonalities that shape our experiences.

What Is Somatic Parts Work?

Somatic Parts Work is a gentle, yet effective method for treating trauma, emotional distress, and chronic internal conflict. It is rooted in the belief—central to IFS—that the human psyche is made up of multiple parts, each with its own perspective, emotion, and role. Some of these parts carry burdens from the past, while others try to protect us from emotional pain by suppressing vulnerability, controlling our environment, or avoiding risk.

Through somatic therapy, we can tune into these parts not just cognitively, but felt-sense-wise—through bodily awareness, nervous system cues, and physical sensation. This embodied access allows for profound healing and integration.

How Does Somatic Parts Therapy Work?

In a typical session, your therapist will guide you in cultivating a deeper connection to your Core Self—the wise, compassionate, and calm inner presence that exists beneath your protective parts. From this grounded place, you'll begin to gently explore the parts of you that may be:woman

Trauma bonds are not ordinary attachments—they are survival-driven connections formed in the shadow of emotional abuse. They arise from repeated cycles of idealization and devaluation, warmth followed by withdrawal, praise laced with punishment. These unpredictable patterns of affection and cruelty create a powerful psychological hook that binds you to someone who may be hurting you. Even after the relationship ends, the imprint remains. You might find yourself thinking about them constantly, doubting your decision to leave, or craving their validation despite knowing how much pain they caused. This is not love. This is the trauma bond at work.

Trauma bonding is common in narcissistic relationships, emotionally abusive dynamics, and situations involving power imbalance. It leaves you stuck in a push-pull pattern where logic says “run,” but your nervous system says “stay.” You may intellectually understand that the relationship was toxic or unsafe, yet still feel pulled back in. That inner conflict—of knowing and still longing—is not a personal failure. It’s a trauma response.

Healing from this kind of emotional entanglement requires more than insight or willpower. It calls for a deeper level of healing—one that addresses the body’s stress response, rewires attachment pathways, and restores a sense of safety from the inside out. This is exactly where EMDR therapy proves to be a transformative and empowering tool for narcissistic abuse recovery.

People who have experienced trauma often develop an acute ability to endure discomfort, whether it's emotional, mental, or physical. Having navigated through profound adversity, their capacity to withstand pain and uncertainty becomes heightened over time. While this resilience can serve them in surviving difficult situations, it can also create a paradox—what was once a survival mechanism becomes a pattern of tolerating unhealthy dynamics, stifling growth, and preventing healing. This ability to endure, honed through hardship, can sometimes mean accepting stress, imbalance, and disconnection in relationships or everyday life. Yet, recognizing this tendency is the first step in breaking the cycle and reclaiming the power to prioritize well-being and growth.

As a psychotherapist and coach in Manhattan, I treat clients struggling with a range of concerns, from stress and life challenges to recovery from addictions and trauma. Many have suffered developmental trauma(s) or single incident trauma and now have symptoms of PTSD negatively impacting many aspects of their lives, including personal relationships and work.

In order to understand EMDR, one needs to be clear about how trauma can affect the brain. When an individual experiences a traumatic event or multiple traumas they may develop what is known as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or PTSD as a response to the overwhelming event(s). When this occurs, the brain fails to successfully process the trauma leaving it "stuck" or "frozen" in the central nervous system. This often leads to numbness, dissociation, severe anxiety, depression, insomnia, addictions, physical complaints and an inability to experience "safety." In everyday life, in the here and now, the body fails to recognize that the person is now safe and it reacts as though the danger is current and in present time, leaving the individual in a state of emotional and physical arousal.

EMDR therapy as a treatment, is unique because it facilitates the processing of trauma information that has become "stuck" in the nervous system. The various elements of EMDR therapy serves to rewire the brain, calm the nervous system and lessen anxiety and symptoms. It "uploads" a more corrective experience, moving the client from pain and danger to "I survived," "It wasn't my fault" or "I did all that I could" as examples.

If traditional talk therapy has left you feeling discouraged with your healing progress, EMDR might be the solution that finally leads to symptom reduction. Many psychotherapists who are skilled with EMDR therapy are successfully working with their patients online using virtual EMDR. Many of us discovered that we could begin or continue EMDR Therapy virtually during the pandemic.

As a specialist in trauma therapy and an advanced level II EMDR practitioner in New York City, I have been helping patients heal and address challenges through online EMDR therapy. Many feel better after just a handful of sessions and will say “why didn’t my therapist tell me about this sooner?” Not everyone is trained in EMDR, but those who practice this modality know just how effective EMDR therapy is. EMDR is most commonly known to resolve PTSD and trauma. It’s also very effective for getting to the root cause of anxiety, depression, chronic sadness, addictions, compulsions, eating disorders, fears, phobias, grief, performance enhancement, and so much more.

EMDR therapy uses a process called Bilateral Stimulation to facilitate healing. Virtual EMDR therapists help patients process trauma using self-administered BLS by tapping on the knees, butterfly hug tapping or online software that stimulates rapid eye movement such as remotEMDR. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) focuses on reducing the impact that episodic distress, anxiety, fear, depression, phobias, triggers, negative emotions and traumatic memories have on your life.