Because the Body Remembers What the Mind Tries to Forget

When a relationship leaves you anxious, hypervigilant, or numb, it’s not just heartbreak—it’s your nervous system remembering pain. Even long after you’ve left an unhealthy dynamic, your body may still brace for conflict, shrink at raised voices, or tense up when someone gets too close.

That’s because trauma—especially relational or attachment trauma—doesn’t just live in the mind. It lives in the body: in your breath, posture, heart rate, and gut. Somatic therapy helps you reconnect with the body’s wisdom, teaching it that safety, love, and trust can coexist again.

Why Trauma Healing Must Begin in the Body

Over the years, I’ve come to trust what neuroscience, attachment theory, and countless clients have shown me: you can’t think your way out of trauma. Traditional talk therapies and CBT-based approaches can offer insight and temporary relief, but trauma isn’t stored in logic—it’s stored in the body. It lives in the muscles that tighten, the breath that shortens, the stomach that clenches each time safety feels uncertain.

That’s why my bias—if you can call it that—is toward somatic healing. The body tells the truth long before the mind can find words. And until the body feels safe, no amount of cognitive reframing can create lasting change.