A NYC Therapist’s Perspective on Insight, Control, and Emotional Change

Highly intelligent people often arrive in therapy with a level of insight that is impressive. They can articulate their emotional patterns, describe their childhood dynamics, understand attachment styles, and explain exactly why they feel the way they do.

Many have already read extensively about psychology. Some have been in therapy before. Others are professionals—executives, physicians, attorneys, creatives, academics—who spend their lives thinking, analyzing, and problem-solving at a very high level.

And yet, despite all of this insight, many feel stuck.

From a clinical standpoint, intelligence is not a problem. In fact, it can be an enormous asset. But in therapy—particularly with high-functioning adults in a city like New York—intelligence often becomes a double-edged sword.

Insight Is Not the Same as Change

One of the most common frustrations expressed by highly intelligent therapy clients is this:

“I understand why I feel this way. So why hasn’t it changed?”