Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing

EMDR+ Therapy in New York

A neuroscience-informed path to emotional repair and resilience

In my practice, I offer what I call EMDR+, an integrative approach that extends beyond traditional EMDR therapy. EMDR+ combines the precision of trauma reprocessing with the depth of relational and somatic awareness—drawing from modalities such as Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing (SE), psychodynamic psychotherapy, attachment-based therapy, and mindfulness. This multidimensional method honors both the neurobiological and emotional aspects of healing, helping clients not only resolve trauma but also restore balance, connection, and vitality. EMDR+ is designed for those seeking transformation that reaches beyond symptom relief—toward lasting integration of mind, body, and self.

Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR) is a transformative psychotherapy approach developed to help individuals heal from trauma and distressing life experiences. Grounded in decades of neuroscience and clinical research, EMDR works by helping the brain reprocess painful memories so they can be integrated—rather than relived.

In EMDR, clients focus on a troubling event or belief while engaging in bilateral stimulation—often through eye movements, tones, or gentle tapping. This process helps the nervous system re-evaluate the emotional charge of the experience, allowing adaptive healing to occur naturally. The result: a sense of relief, clarity, and emotional freedom where distress once lived.

What EMDR Can Help With

EMDR therapy is highly effective for a wide range of emotional and psychological concerns, including:

  • Post-traumatic stress and complex trauma (PTSD, C-PTSD)

  • Childhood neglect, emotional deprivation, and attachment wounds

  • Panic attacks and generalized anxiety

  • Performance anxiety and perfectionism

  • Depression and emotional numbing

  • Phobias, fears, and obsessive thought patterns

  • Grief, loss, and relationship trauma

  • Medical trauma or injury recovery

  • Shame, guilt, and self-limiting beliefs

  • Recovery from narcissistic abuse or emotionally manipulative relationships

How EMDR Works

Unlike talk therapy, which relies primarily on cognitive insight, EMDR activates both hemispheres of the brain to unlock implicit memories and stored emotional pain. During the reprocessing phase, clients safely revisit difficult experiences while remaining grounded in the present. The brain’s natural information-processing system then integrates these experiences, leading to reduced emotional intensity and new adaptive perspectives.

The process is often described as “the mind finally catching up to the body” — a powerful rebalancing that allows emotional memories to lose their charge while retaining their meaning.

Virtual EMDR Therapy in New York

Many New Yorkers lead complex, demanding lives that make consistent in-person sessions challenging. Virtual EMDR, delivered through secure telehealth platforms, offers the same evidence-based results in a private, accessible, and flexible format.

Through guided protocols and virtual bilateral stimulation tools, clients experience the full benefits of EMDR therapy—whether at home, in the office, or while traveling—without compromising safety or therapeutic depth.

Why Work with an EMDR Specialist

While many therapists offer EMDR as one of many tools, true depth work requires advanced training, attunement, and experience. Working with a clinician who specializes in EMDR ensures that the therapy is applied with precision and care—especially for complex trauma, dissociation, or high-functioning clients who may present with subtle trauma patterns masked by success or resilience.

An experienced EMDR therapist understands not only the technique but the timing—when to move forward, when to pause, and how to integrate somatic, relational, and cognitive dimensions for comprehensive healing.

Integrative EMDR: A Whole-Person Approach

In my practice, EMDR is rarely used in isolation. It is integrated with modalities such as:

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) for understanding and healing protective parts

  • Somatic Experiencing (SE) for restoring regulation to the nervous system

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) for reframing negative beliefs

  • Mindfulness and lifestyle medicine for ongoing emotional resilience

This multidimensional approach allows clients to process trauma on every level—mind, body, and spirit—while cultivating a felt sense of empowerment and peace.

what if i’m not ready to begin EMDR therapy?

Healing Begins with Readiness

Healing is not a race. It’s a process of learning how to feel safe enough to feel. For many people, beginning trauma therapy—especially something as powerful as EMDR—requires a period of preparation.

This readiness phase is not wasted time; it’s foundational work. It helps your body and mind develop the stability needed for EMDR to be effective, sustainable, and transformative.

If you’re not ready for EMDR just yet, you’re in exactly the right place.

Understanding EMDR Readiness

EMDR therapy involves reprocessing distressing memories using bilateral stimulation (eye movements, sounds, or taps) to help the brain integrate unprocessed experiences.

Because EMDR accesses emotional material stored in both mind and body, it’s most effective when the nervous system feels resourced and safe enough to tolerate activation. Readiness means:

  • You have basic emotional regulation skills

  • You feel generally safe in your body most of the time

  • You can name emotions, sensations, or triggers with some awareness

  • You have at least one supportive person or resource outside therapy

  • You can engage in self-care or grounding when you feel dysregulated

If some of these aren’t true yet—don’t worry. That’s what the preparation phase is for.

Gentle Ways to Begin Healing Before EMDR

1. Grounding the Nervous System

Start small. Try placing both feet on the floor and noticing what you feel—temperature, pressure, texture.
Breathe slowly through your nose, exhaling twice as long as you inhale. This simple practice signals to your nervous system: You are safe right now.

You can also use grounding through the five senses: find one thing you can see, touch, hear, smell, and taste.

2. Building Body Awareness

Before we can release what’s stored in the body, we must first notice it.
Take moments throughout the day to ask, What am I feeling in my body right now?—without trying to change it.
This gentle awareness strengthens the connection between mind and body and helps you sense when your system is moving into activation or calm.

3. Developing Emotional Literacy

When emotions arise, name them: sadness, fear, frustration, confusion.
Even if you can’t identify the cause, naming emotions helps engage the brain’s integrative functions and reduces physiological arousal.

Try journaling or voice-noting how emotions feel in the body: tightness, heaviness, warmth, or tingling. These micro-observations build emotional fluency and prepare you for EMDR’s somatic component.

4. Creating a Resource Toolkit

Your “resources” are the things that bring you back to safety.
Examples include:

  • A grounding object (stone, necklace, scent)

  • Breath or mindfulness practice

  • Gentle yoga, stretching, or walking

  • Listening to music that calms or uplifts

  • Connecting with supportive friends or pets

  • Time in nature or sensory grounding (water, air, light)

These become your anchors during and between sessions.

5. Establishing Support and Routine

Stability outside of therapy supports deeper healing within it.
Try maintaining a simple rhythm: consistent sleep, balanced meals, hydration, movement, and quiet time.
If possible, identify one or two people in your life who can offer safe connection as you prepare for trauma work.

6. Considering a Preparation Phase in Therapy

Many clients begin with several resourcing sessions before starting EMDR+. These sessions focus on:

  • Nervous system education and regulation tools

  • Strengthening boundaries and self-trust

  • Identifying safe internal imagery or “calm places”

  • Building tolerance for emotional activation

This preparation is an essential part of trauma-informed care—it helps you feel confident, stable, and supported when EMDR begins.

When You’re Ready

When your system feels steadier and you have the internal tools to manage emotional activation, EMDR+ becomes a transformative process. Clients often find that readiness work not only supports trauma processing but also improves sleep, relationships, focus, and overall vitality.

You don’t have to rush. Healing that lasts begins with safety, patience, and trust in your body’s natural wisdom.

Recommended Resources

Books

  • Waking the Tiger: Healing Trauma by Peter A. Levine

  • Getting Past Your Past by Francine Shapiro

  • The Body Keeps the Score by Bessel van der Kolk

  • Healing the Fragmented Selves of Trauma Survivors by Janina Fisher

  • Trauma and the Body: A Sensorimotor Approach to Psychotherapy by Pat Ogden & Kekuni Minton

Podcasts & Apps

  • The Trauma Therapist Podcast with Guy Macpherson

  • Insights at the Edge with Tami Simon

  • Calm or Insight Timer for guided grounding and meditation

Practices

  • Gentle yoga or somatic movement

  • Mindful breathing and grounding through the senses

  • Trauma-informed journaling or creative expression

Begin When You’re Ready

Whether you’re preparing for EMDR+ or simply learning to listen to your body, this readiness phase is part of your healing—not before it.

At Holistic Psychotherapy NY, I offer virtual resourcing and preparation sessions for clients across New York State, helping you build stability, safety, and confidence as you approach EMDR+ therapy.

When you’re ready, the work will meet you exactly where you are.