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High-Functioning, Highly Anxious: Redefining Expert Anxiety Therapy for Professionals in NYC
If you're searching for holistic anxiety therapy in NYC that integrates psychology, neuroscience, and somatic wisdom—you're in the right place. I offer trauma-informed, evidence-based virtual care for individuals and families navigating modern-day anxiety with depth, humor, and hope.
Anxiety wears many faces in New York City. It might look like a flawless presentation, a packed calendar, a promotion earned through perfectionism. It often hides behind success, but that doesn’t make it any less real. This holistic practice specializes in providing modern, cutting-edge anxiety therapy that does more than just address symptoms; this comprehensive approach targets the root cause of chronic anxiety and anxiety disorders.
If you're a high-functioning professional navigating relentless pressure, sleepless nights, and a nervous system on overdrive, you’re not alone. At Holistic Therapy & Wellness NYC, I work with high-achieving women, men, entrepreneurs, and professionals who are struggling beneath the surface—often silently. This isn’t about managing stress. It’s about unlearning survival mode, addressing the root causes of anxiety, and reclaiming a life that actually feels good to live.
Has Anxiety Becomes Your Default Operating System?
You may not even call it “anxiety” at first. It might just feel like overthinking, self-doubt, or the inability to truly rest. But over time, anxiety becomes the air you breathe:
Constant pressure to outperform and overdeliver
Restlessness, irritability, or shutdown in quiet moments
Chronic worry about relationships, career, or the future
Perfectionism masked as professionalism
Imposter syndrome despite real success
Panic episodes during meetings, travel, or at home
Somatic symptoms—tight chest, digestive issues, disrupted sleep
In a city that celebrates productivity, many high-functioning individuals don’t realize they’re in a chronic state of nervous system dysregulation. Until their body—or life—says “enough.”
Everyone Is Talking About The Vagus Nerve: Why You Should Care, And How To Keep It Healthy
The vagus nerve is so trendy right now, I half expect it to start a TikTok. But seriously—the vagus nerve isn’t just wellness hype. It’s one of the most important parts of your nervous system, acting as a communication superhighway between your brain and body. It helps regulate heart rate, digestion, mood, inflammation, and your ability to calm down after stress. When the vagus nerve is functioning well, it’s easier to feel grounded, present, and emotionally balanced. When it’s not, you might feel anxious, disconnected, or stuck in overdrive. Supporting vagal tone isn’t just about feeling relaxed—it’s about building a more resilient, regulated foundation for your mental and physical health. Of late, my NYC therapy patients are coming to psychotherapy sessions curious about the vagus nerve and interested in exploring ways to improve vagal tone.
If you’re feeling anxious, overwhelmed, burnt out, or like your body is stuck in “survival mode,” you’re not imagining it—and you’re not alone. Many people who come to therapy are dealing with symptoms that don’t always make sense on the surface: racing thoughts, a tight chest, digestive discomfort, irritability, and trouble sleeping. What’s often missing from the conversation is the connection between these symptoms and the state of your nervous system. For many New Yorkers, life moves fast—too fast for the nervous system to fully keep up. Constant noise, crowded commutes, long work hours, and the pressure to always be “on” can leave the body stuck in a chronic state of high alert. Over time, this wears down the vagus nerve’s ability to regulate stress effectively. Instead of shifting back into calm after a busy day or a tough interaction, your body may stay tense, wired, or exhausted. You might notice this as anxiety that never fully quiets down, a gut that’s always acting up, trouble sleeping or feeling emotionally reactive over small things. This kind of vagus nerve dysregulation is common in fast-paced, high-stress environments like NYC—but it’s also something therapy, along with nervous system-informed practices, can help you gently repair.
Rosemary Essential Oil: Your New Ally for ADHD, Anxiety, Mood & Everyday Wellness
Essential oils offer a natural, holistic approach to supporting mental health, providing calming and grounding benefits that can help individuals with ADHD manage focus, stress, and emotional balance in their daily lives. As a psychotherapist and consultant from New York City, I integrate essential oils into my therapy practice, particularly when working with clients undergoing EMDR and trauma resolution. Personally, I rely on essential oils in my own work, especially when I’m operating on less sleep or need a boost of focus and relaxation. These oils not only help me maintain clarity but also promote grounding and emotional stabilization, which is crucial when navigating complex emotional work. When it comes to holistic self-care, nature offers some of the most powerful tools, and rosemary essential oil is one such gift. Known for its versatile and therapeutic properties, rosemary oil has been used for centuries to support physical, mental, and emotional well-being. If you’re beginning a new chapter in your mental health journey—whether through psychotherapy, trauma healing, or personal growth—integrating rosemary essential oil into your routine can help regulate your nervous system and provide a holistic layer of support. From calming the mind and enhancing focus to soothing the body and uplifting the spirit, rosemary oil is an invaluable tool for managing ADHD, depression, mood concerns, and emotional regulation. It can help stabilize your energy, promote emotional balance, and guide you toward lasting wellness.
Natural and Holistic Alternatives for Anxiety: A Manhattan Psychotherapist’s Guide
Most of us struggle with anxiety from time to time. Many turn to prescription medications—such as SSRIs (Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors) or anxiolytics like benzodiazepines—to find relief. While these medications can be highly effective for some, others may experience unwanted side effects, limited symptom relief, or prefer to avoid long-term pharmaceutical use. Fortunately, there are safe, evidence-informed natural alternatives that can complement or, in some cases, replace medication.
As a holistic psychotherapist, I work with individuals who want to address anxiety through integrative methods. Whether you’re tapering off medication, hoping to avoid starting it altogether, or simply looking to supplement therapy with natural approaches, you deserve an individualized, science-informed plan tailored to your nervous system.
Why Choose a Holistic Approach to Anxiety?
Holistic anxiety treatment focuses on the whole person—mind, body, and nervous system. Unlike symptom-targeted approaches that rely solely on medication, holistic therapy integrates lifestyle changes, nutritional support, and mind-body techniques to uncover and treat the root causes of anxiety.
This approach may include:
Psychotherapy modalities such as EMDR, Somatic Experiencing, CBT, and mindfulness-based therapies
Complementary practices like breathwork, grounding, and movement
Amino acid therapy and targeted nutritional supplementation
Personalized lifestyle modifications to reduce stress and regulate the nervous system
How Anxiety Can Affect Your Life
Anxiety isn’t just “worry”—it’s a complex condition that can impact every area of functioning. Understanding its full range of effects helps normalize your experience and illuminate a path forward.
Emotional impact
Anxiety often brings intense feelings of fear, worry, and apprehension. These emotions can feel overwhelming and lead to sadness, irritability, or panic.Physical symptoms
Common physiological signs include a racing heart, dizziness, shortness of breath, GI upset, muscle tension, fatigue, and trembling. These sensations can mimic other health issues and be frightening in their own right.
CBT Skills: Tips for Changing Problem Thoughts and Behaviors
We all need a little help sometimes, even when we have awareness of our challenges and difficulties. CBT is a type of therapy that works on negative thought patterns or behaviors in an effort to recognize and restructure them. In other words, CBT can help you change how you approach a situation. CBT techniques are very helpful tools to be used in therapy and coaching and useful when applied to everyday life situations. What follows are some of the most common CBT techniques that I use with my therapy and coaching clients in my New York City Holistic Psychotherapy & Wellness Practice .
Journaling - This technique gathers information and data about habitual thoughts, emotions and moods. Included in journal entries can be: time of day, the source or trigger, the intensity of the feeling state and the response or action taken. You can add more helpful and adaptive coping responses that might be considered in the future.
Getting “Unstuck” With EMDR Therapy
As a psychotherapist and coach in Manhattan, I treat clients struggling with a range of concerns, from stress and life challenges to recovery from addictions and trauma. Many have suffered developmental trauma(s) or single incident trauma and now have symptoms of PTSD negatively impacting many aspects of their lives, including personal relationships and work.
In order to understand EMDR, one needs to be clear about how trauma can affect the brain. When an individual experiences a traumatic event or multiple traumas they may develop what is known as Post Traumatic Stress Disorder or PTSD as a response to the overwhelming event(s). When this occurs, the brain fails to successfully process the trauma leaving it "stuck" or "frozen" in the central nervous system. This often leads to numbness, dissociation, severe anxiety, depression, insomnia, addictions, physical complaints and an inability to experience "safety." In everyday life, in the here and now, the body fails to recognize that the person is now safe and it reacts as though the danger is current and in present time, leaving the individual in a state of emotional and physical arousal.
EMDR therapy as a treatment, is unique because it facilitates the processing of trauma information that has become "stuck" in the nervous system. The various elements of EMDR therapy serves to rewire the brain, calm the nervous system and lessen anxiety and symptoms. It "uploads" a more corrective experience, moving the client from pain and danger to "I survived," "It wasn't my fault" or "I did all that I could" as examples.
About Holistic Psychotherapy
Holistic Psychotherapy is beneficial for people of all ages, and it’s never too late to begin developing healthier lifestyle habits. No matter your age, mental health issues can interfere with your wellbeing throughout your lifespan. Individuals and couples enter therapy with a unique set of challenges and goals. As a holistic psychotherapist with a private practice in NYC, I specialize in helping older adolescents, adults and couples who experience struggle in their day to day lives. My focus is to help you uncover the root cause of your struggle in psychotherapy, as holistic psychotherapists believe that this is the best path forward to support your mental health recovery. Let me explain the many ways therapy can help make your life better.
Psychotherapy offers the opportunity for an individual to better understand and change patterns of behavior, feelings, and relationships that are getting in the way of your functioning. Psychotherapy offers the opportunity for an individual to understand and change patterns of behavior, feelings, and relationships that are getting in the way of higher-functioning. Good therapy can enable you to have richer, fuller and more meaningful life experiences.
What Does Holistic Psychotherapy Do?
Amino Acid Therapy To Heal Your Brain & Improve Your Anxiety, Depression, ADHD & More.
Some common reasons people reach out for therapy and counseling is to address their new or longstanding mental health challenges. Symptoms such as anxiety, depression, addiction, insomnia and lack of motivation are often so debilitating that they are unable to live the life they desire. In my experience, psychiatric medications are essential for many, and truly life saving. But for those who have not had success with traditional psychiatry, it’s worth considering the highly-effective natural solutions that are rarely offered in conventional medicine.
Many mental health symptoms are all indications that levels of neurotransmitters such as serotonin, GABA, and the catecholamines dopamine and norepinephrine (there are more) are low. This is otherwise known as neurotransmitter dysfunction or imbalance. There are four main neurotransmitters involved with mood and behavior, and they are: serotonin, GABA, endorphins and the catecholamines (dopamine/Norepinephrine). The main focus with Amino Acid Therapy in clinical practice is on the serotonin-catecholamine system. Low levels of each of these, lead to a very specific pattern of mental health symptoms. It’s important to know that there are many reasons why brains become depleted and imbalanced, such as, trauma, chronic stress, chronic pain, loss, poor nutrition, addiction, hormonal changes and genetic predisposition, and thankfully, there are effective and powerful ways to restore brain health.
Our bodies need amino acids to work properly, and they are crucial to metabolic function. Some amino acids are made by the body, and others come from your diet. Typically, when you consume a protein, your body breaks it down and what's left is the amino acid. Amino acids are precursors to neurotransmitters, and when these vital messengers are deficient or imbalanced, information is not relayed optimally in the brain, and symptoms arise. Amino acid therapy aims to heal and restore the brain to optimal functioning by supplementing what’s missing based on history, symptoms, behaviors and response to trial treatment.
Therapy And Support For Deeply-Feeling People
For as long as you can remember, others have labeled you as “too shy” or “too sensitive.” It sure doesn’t feel good to hear this, but it does describe your reality on the daily. Thinking about it, you’ve always felt alone, or very different. You may be more reactive than most to the moods of others, criticism can feel especially hostile, external stimuli and energy drains you. These are just a few examples of what it’s like as a Highly-Sensitive Person (HSP), also known as deep-feelers, neurodivergent individuals and Sensory-Processing Sensitivity (SPS). Navigating a noisy, demanding world as a highly-sensitive person can be disabling for many especially as you attempt to accommodate and manage the accompanying anxiety and depression. But remember, sensitive folks have great gifts. They tend to experience high levels of perceptivity and intuition, empathy and super-attunement, and even high levels of creativity. Sometimes, your exquisite sensitivity feels like a gift; it can also feel like a curse. Please know that you are not alone and you do not need to suffer in silence.
About Therapy For Phobias
As a NYC psychotherapist in private practice, I treat people who struggle with phobias. Phobias are a common form of psychological disorder and distress. Generally defined as irrational fears about objects or situations, people tend to see their phobias as unreasonable, but feel incapable of giving up the fear or confronting the situation head on. Not all phobias are severe enough to impact the quality of one's life, but some are. There are many ways to treat a phobia, and some treatment methods are much more effective than others. Most people have certain things or situations that create discomfort, but are still able to carry on with the daily activities of life. Individuals with phobias or a specific phobia have intense, irrational fears, and will experience great distress that disrupts their life, avoiding the object or situation altogether. Phobias can be categorized into three types: Simple, or situational, social phobias and agoraphobia.