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Emotional Health & Wellness Tips From The Therapy Couch And Other Places
Kimberly Seelbrede, LCSW, is a New York State licensed psychotherapist and women’s emotional health expert whose work weaves together the science of the mind, the biology of the brain, and the art of holistic integrative wellness. With nearly two decades of clinical experience, she helps women in midlife navigate the profound emotional, hormonal, and identity transitions that often surface during perimenopause and menopause. In addition, she works with couples to improve communication, strengthen emotional intimacy, and navigate changes in sexual health, relationship dynamics, and shared life stressors. She works with men who are experiencing personal and professional crises, life transitions, stress, mood changes, or relationship challenges. Her approach blends evidence-based psychotherapy with holistic mind-body interventions, including EMDR, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Somatic Experiencing® techniques, mindfulness, and lifestyle medicine — to address the full spectrum of emotional, physical, and spiritual wellbeing. Disclaimer: I am a licensed and fully credentialed mental health provider, but I am not a medical doctor. The information provided on this website is for educational purposes only and is not a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. Always consult a qualified healthcare professional regarding any medical or health-related concerns, including perimenopause, menopause, hormone therapy, or other chronic medical conditions. Reliance on the content on this site is solely at your own risk.
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within the scope of compassionate and informed psychological care
She comes to therapy because she’s suffering, though on the surface, no one would know. Her best friend seems to be sailing through menopause without a hitch, still sleeping soundly, still herself, while she quietly unravels. Her body aches in ways she can’t explain. Anxiety hums beneath everything. Sleep, once reliable, has turned against her. Mornings bring exhaustion; evenings bring dread. She’s lost interest in things she used to love, and she can’t name exactly what’s wrong — only that life feels dimmer, smaller, harder to hold together. Her husband says he misses her. She scrolls through advice columns and doctors’ websites but finds little that truly fits. She now mostly relies on Instagram and Facebook groups for support and additional resources, but it’s a challenge to know who and what to trust. The truth is, every woman’s experience of midlife is different. For some, it’s a gentle recalibration; for others, it’s a full-body scream, a neurological, hormonal, and emotional storm that touches every corner of being. In therapy, we begin by naming what’s happening, lifting it from the realm of shame or mystery and into understanding and knowledge so healing can finally begin.
As a psychotherapist and coach licensed in New York who works extensively with women in midlife and beyond, I see how often confusion, misinformation, and outdated medical narratives add unnecessary suffering to an already complex life stage.